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15 Reasons I Love You (even when you drive me crazy!)

autumn15. You aren’t afraid to laugh loud and hard. The sound of your laugh can make me feel good, and it also makes it very easy for me to find you.

14. Your cheerleading tendencies — I know you would hate being called a cheerleader (I’m sure you are rolling your eyes as you read this), but you do a BEAUTIFUL job of cheering on your friends and team mates. You never fail to tell someone when they are doing a good job, and you work very hard to get other people motivated and fired up. I like hearing your chatter when you play sports.

13. When you are grumpy and tired and your siblings won’t leave you alone, you find me and curl up next to me and call me Mommy.

12. Your independence — you know what you want and you know what you need to do (although this one does sometimes get you in trouble when you’ve been told you can’t do it).

11. When I am cooking dinner and a sibling or your dad distracts me, you take over stirring the food without being asked. This is usually done without either one of us realizing it, but you have saved more than one dinner from being burned and for that, I suspect, the rest of the family loves you too.

10. Your ability as a writer — you write amazing stories that I love to read.You are a very talented fiction writer.

9. Your voice when you sing (if not all of your musical selections)

8. Your attempts to manipulate me even when you know they won’t work.

7. Your ability to admit when you are wrong even if your agreement is only to me and only lasts for the length of the trip in the car.

6. Your curly hair even though you prefer it straightened. I love the way you look with your head full of curls.

5. The redness of your cheeks and the blue of your eyes.

4. When you finish reading a really good book and your first words to me are “Mom, you HAVE to read this” and then you tell me why.

3. Watching you play softball — you are good, and I love the way your eyes sparkle when you catch a fly ball. (I enjoy watching you play any sport, but your love for softball shines through.)

2. Listening to you talk about your day — you are always so animated and excited.

1. That there are signs that my 15 years of nagging are starting to pay off. For instance, this morning when you went into the mudroom and noticed your siblings were not following the system that you created, and you wondered out loud how long it would take before they figured it out. Based on your own learning curve, I estimate 13 years of nagging. Luckily, I started nagging them long before you did, so you won’t have to wait the full 13 years.

Happy Birthday, Autumn!

P.S. Where is my Klondike bar?

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Brush Fire Author

Autumn posing with the anthology where her short story was published.

Autumn posing with the anthology where her short story was published.

My oldest daughter spent last summer at a two-week creative writing camp. She was the youngest person at the camp.

Yesterday, in the mail, she received a copy of “Brush Fire,” which is the literary journal that showcases the best work produced during the camp.

Her short story “Drowning” was published, and Autumn was pretty proud to see her name in print. This is the second time her work has been included in an anthology, but I think this one meant a lot more to her.

Autumn autographing her short story.

Autumn autographing her short story.

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Spelling Bee Champion!

Justin was in the fourth-grade spelling bee today. It took place at the high school auditorium. There had already been preliminary rounds and only six representatives from each of the four fourth-grade classes made it to the competition today.

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Justin (center) after winning as everyone collected their balloons and offered congratulations to Justin.

When it started, I wasn’t nervous, but I knew Justin was nervous. He wasn’t the only one. The very first kid who stepped up to the podium was asked to spell “ache,” and rushed his answer, added a k, and had to sit down.

At that point, I started getting nervous. I knew that Justin was a good at spelling, and I knew that he could spell almost every word on the second page including words like characterize and efficiency.

But every time a kid sat down because they heard the word wrong and as a result spelled the wrong word, my anxiety grew.

One boy, not Justin, was given the word “rare.” In the audience, I immediately wondered if it was “rear” or “rare.” I held my breath when the boy just started spelling without asking for the word to be used in a sentence. He was right, but I felt like I was going to start sweating soon, and it wasn’t even my kid!

I knew Justin would be very disappointed if he screwed up. Plus, the kids were good at spelling. I was impressed. Soon it was down to two boys and about six girls.

The competition began with four-letter words. It continued with five-letter words and then six-letter words. The list of possible words went all the way up to 12-letter words.

By the seventh round, there were just enough students to fill the front row — about 8 kids. There were at least two rounds without any eliminations and then a girl was out and then the other boy.

After 11 rounds, it was down to Justin and one other girl, Alexis. Both were awesome spellers. It looked like the spelling bee was going to last forever because the two of them weren’t making any mistakes.

It went 16 or 17 rounds with just the two of them. I was getting more and more nervous.

Justin wasn’t helping. More than once during his turn, he would ask the person to repeat the word. One time the word was “chatter,” and Justin asked it to be repeated. He still didn’t know for sure, so he asked if it meant when people talk a lot. The meaning of the word isn’t something that is provided, so the person saying the words used it in a sentence.

I think Justin was just showing off. He spelled the word “chatter” without any problems.

Alexis was up, and the word was “promote.” I wasn’t close to the stage. She didn’t clarify the word, and she started spelling it.

One of the spelling rules is that once you start spelling the word, you can restart, but you can’t change any letters.

Alexis (according to Justin) spelled “remote.”

It was just what I was dreading! They were both doing so well, and when it came down to it, it was a misheard word.

When it was just the two of them, they were in an elimination round. In order to win, Justin had to correctly spell the word “promote” AND spell the next word to take the win.

He spelled promote. The principal later complimented me on how well Justin pronounced his letters when he spelled them. He always made sure to pronounce them very clearly and loudly into the microphone. His teacher, Mrs. Harrison, really gave her students a lot of great tips for the competition (including to make sure you were spelling the word you needed to spell).

And then the heat was on — Justin needed to spell the next word right to take the win. If he was wrong, both kids would still be in it and the spelling bee would continue.

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Justin, the Spelling Bee Champion!

The word was “peasant.” Very clearly and slowly, Justin said, “peasant – p-e-a-s-a-n-t- peasant.” The kids started whooping and yelling and so did I along with Justin’s grandma and great-grandma.

Justin had the biggest smile on his face.

His name will go on a plaque that hangs in the middle-school. He will also get his picture in the paper, and he received a my

lar balloon that said, “Congratulations! You did it.” (Which, by the way, he already lost when it came off his wrist and blew away.)

In celebration, I bought him a banana split.

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Trustworthy and Helpful

Maxine brought a letter home from school today, and as she handed it to me, she told me she was in trouble again.

Only this letter, says that the school is going to start a program called the National Helpers Program, and Maxine is being considered for training. She has been identified through an anonymous school-wide survey as someone her peers see as “trustworthy and helpful.”

I’m grinning. ;-)

And I am also bragging about my kids way too much lately, but they’ve been doing some cool things outside of the house. Let me assure you that in our home they are very much the irritating little brats all children are known to be….

And I have a couple more story to share to sort of balance things out…

Today, I entered my classroom at the college, and I was standing at the computer going through my stack of papers as I prepared to return research paper I had graded.

One of my students entered, and he asked me if I was up late grading papers. I said no. Oh, he said, I must have been up early then. I said, no not any earlier than normal. Huh, he said, I thought the bags under your eyes were from being up late grading.

Bags under my eyes? Why thank you. ;-) How nice of you to notice.

Actually, this student is fun to have in class. He doesn’t censor anything he says, so I wasn’t really offended. I smiled (sort-of).

And then just now, my husband looked over at me and asked, “What are you doing in MY chair?”

Before I could reply, my daughter, Amanda said, “She’s sitting.”

Steve threw something (soft) at her.

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Should I brag about this too?

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Last weekend, the two oldest girls participated in a lock-in for teenagers. They stayed up all night in a locked building with a bunch of other teens and fun activities. There was a contest for bands and various games and prizes to be won.

When Amanda came home shortly after 6 a.m., with a huge smile on her face, she proudly informed me she had won the gross eating contest and the $5 prize.

I don’t have all of the details about exactly how she had to eat the concoction. I do know it involved baby food. The winning digestive item included a drink concoction that included coffee grounds. I can’t remember all of the ingredients, but the coffee grounds would have stopped me. Amanda didn’t hesitate.

Amanda won first place. The second and third place winners were also girls around her age. This competition was also open to boys, but the boys were apparently overwhelmed by the gross-factor. Amanda reported one boy even threw up, but most just spit the contents of their mouth back into the cup. Amanda just LOVES beating boys at anything.

I think, however, the puppy pictured with her in this post may have been able to beat her. This morning Lilly (the puppy) was eating something, and Amanda was called on to take it away from Lilly because who knew what this iron-stomached puppy would be chewing up THIS time. Amanda bent down to pick it up, grabbed it, and then immediately recoiled in disgust, dropping the item to the floor.

The offensive item? Used gum. Amanda grabbed a plastic bag to protect her as she picked it up a second time and properly disposed of it. It didn’t seem to be the actions of a gross-food eating contest winner, but I’ve learned teenagers are all about contradictions….

Amanda is 12, and she is (I am very sad to report) turning into a teenager. She once had a very easy going disposition, but she now gets upset over the slightest things. Most of her anger is directed at her little sister, Maxine.

Last night, Amanda and Maxine were arguing over who was sitting where on the couch. The bickering was unbelievable, and Amanda’s new favorite line is “It’s not fair!”

Later, after the fall out had fallen, I talked about it to Amanda. She had stayed up later with everyone else to finish up some homework she missed when she was sick this week. I had helped her. As she packed up her things, she thanked me for her help. Her sweet disposition was back in place. I saw this as an opening.

I suggested as gratitude, she could perhaps treat her little sister a bit nicer.

Me: Remember how Autumn used to pick on you, and you would get upset?

Amanda: Yeah.

Me: You didn’t like it did you?

Amanda: No (she pauses, and I am elated thinking I may have made a breakthrough in sibling rivalry….)

Amanda: …but I’m the older one now.

Alas, a breakthrough was not to be. I gathered my jaw up off the floor and said goodnight.

I keep forgetting how distorted a teenager’s perspective can be. I think there is something that happens in the birthing process to both parents that requires you to forget what you were like as a teenager because if we didn’t forget….

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