Twenty-three years ago, March was coming in like a lion.
The weather was nasty and slippery; there were warnings about going out.
The phone rang in my parents’ living room, and my dad told me it was probably my date calling to cancel.
Caller ID didn’t exist back then, but my dad was half-right. It was my date, but he wasn’t calling to cancel. He was confirming that I still wanted to go out despite the weather. I did.
We went to the movies to see Working Girl, which is not a movie I would recommend for a first date. I remember being very embarrassed during some of the scenes. That is, when I was paying attention to the scenes. Most of the time, I remember wishing he would hold my hand. I spent a lot of time looking at our two hands just inches apart.
After the movie, the weather was still nasty. I had just had a car accident a couple weeks before, and the weather wasn’t helping my anxiety. I asked him if the roads were bad.
I didn’t know it then, but my future husband’s biggest hobby was racing cars, and slippery roads were not scary to him.
At the time, I thought he had hit the brakes to see if the roads were slippery. He later let me know he had actually hit the gas. The car’s rear end slid, and I went into full-fledged panic.
He hadn’t known about my recent car accident either.
Later when we went back to my house, my parents expressed concerns about the roads. We talked him into calling his parents and staying overnight at our house. He lived in Houghton Lake, which was a good half hour away from my house.
We went to my prom:
And his prom the following year:
We stayed together since that day in March 1989. And in 1994, we married:
We are high-school sweethearts, but we went to different high schools.
I loved him back then, and I love him even more now.
The other day, we were driving to have breakfast at a local restaurant. The roads were snowy, and a bit slippery.
There were birds in the road ahead of us, and my husband slowed to avoid hitting the birds.
The car he was driving started to swerve out of control. We actually did a complete 360.
I never panicked. I trust my husband behind the wheel and everywhere else.We didn’t hit the birds or anything else. He was able to get the car under control, and we made it safely to the restaurant.
I love you, Steve.


















