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Twenty-Three Years Ago

Twenty-three years ago, March was coming in like a lion.

The weather was nasty and slippery; there were warnings about going out.

The phone rang in my parents’ living room, and my dad told me it was probably my date calling to cancel.

Caller ID didn’t exist back then, but my dad was half-right. It was my date, but he wasn’t calling to cancel. He was confirming that I still wanted to go out despite the weather. I did.

We went to the movies to see Working Girl, which is not a movie I would recommend for a first date. I remember being very embarrassed during some of the scenes. That is, when I was paying attention to the scenes. Most of the time, I remember wishing he would hold my hand. I spent a lot of time looking at our two hands just inches apart.

After the movie, the weather was still nasty. I had just had a car accident a couple weeks before, and the weather wasn’t helping my anxiety. I asked him if the roads were bad.

I didn’t know it then, but my future husband’s biggest hobby was racing cars, and slippery roads were not scary to him.

My husband next to his racecar just before a race in 2008.

At the time, I thought he had hit the brakes to see if the roads were slippery. He later let me know he had actually hit the gas. The car’s rear end slid, and I went into full-fledged panic.

He hadn’t known about my recent car accident either.

Later when we went back to my house, my parents expressed concerns about the roads. We talked him into calling his parents and staying overnight at our house. He lived in Houghton Lake, which was a good half hour away from my house.

We went to my prom:

And his prom the following year:

We stayed together since that day in March 1989. And in 1994, we married:

We are high-school sweethearts, but we went to different high schools.

I loved him back then, and I love him even more now.

The other day, we were driving to have breakfast at a local restaurant. The roads were snowy, and a bit slippery.

There were birds in the road ahead of us, and my husband slowed to avoid hitting the birds.

The car he was driving started to swerve out of control. We actually did a complete 360.

I never panicked. I trust my husband behind the wheel and everywhere else.We didn’t hit the birds or anything else. He was able to get the car under control, and we made it safely to the restaurant.

I love you, Steve.

 

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Powerless

We had a nasty storm move in Friday night, and it dumped over a foot of snow along with lots of rain. The snow was the heavy wet variety, so it made trees bend and break under the weight, and somewhere out in the woods were power lines that brought power to our house, and they were broken.

It happened around 2:30 in the morning. I know this because I was up at 2 a.m. shoveling my driveway. I never shovel my driveway especially at 2 a.m.

Why was I shoveling? Because I am the mother of three girls.

Seriously.

A boy had stopped by to visit the middle daughter. When he arrived, our driveway was plowed. The cement slab in front of our garage was all shoveled off, and there was no snow anywhere near our front door.

That quickly changed.

My husband and I had left and came back. During the time we were gone, about six inches of heavy snow fell. Almost no one was out on the roads. I told the boy where to find the broom to sweep the snow off his car, and we went to bed.

A couple of hours later, I woke up to the sounds of a car trying to get unstuck. I realized it must be the boy trying to leave.

I got dressed and went out to my living room to find my daughter on the couch. I thought she’d be helping him. She said he hadn’t come in to ask for help. I made her put on boots and gloves and a coat and go out and help.

On our way out the door, I grabbed a shovel. My daughter followed me, but she couldn’t find gloves or a shovel. She didn’t look very hard.

The boy was shoveling in front of his car, giving himself a path to the road. I started shoveling too.

After a bit, I asked out loud if the road was even plowed. When we had arrived home a few hours earlier, our road was full of deep snow, and I was pushing the snow with the bottom of my car.

We quickly determined the road was NOT plowed, and even if we shoveled to the end of my driveway, I wasn’t prepared to shovel a mile of road to get to the main road. The boy had no choice but to sleep on our couch.

As we went back in, the lights started to flicker. They would go out and come back on about six times. We quickly went around and unplugged all of the electronics. The lights then went out completely.

Luckily, we have a generator that will power everything in our house except for the hot water heater.

This is what our road looked like:

Our road the next morning -- it wasn't plowed until after 11 a.m.

 

And this is what the snow was doing to trees (these trees normally stand straight and were nearly bent in half):

The snow was bending and breaking trees. These trees normally stand straight.

 

The boy waited until our road was plowed before leaving the next day. Even then, he said his car was pushing snow because it wasn’t plowed well.

We didn’t have any problems getting around because we own a truck, which has a lot more clearance than a car. This is a good thing.

Happy birthday, Mom!

My mom and sisters a few years ago. L to R is me, my sister Kari, my mom Bernardine and my sister Dee.

Today, March 2, 2012, my mom Bernardine Louise Denton turns 74.

She is celebrating her birthday by going out to dinner with her 93 year old boyfriend.

Then, I invited her to come to my house sometime next week, so we can celebrate her birthday with her as well.

My mom is a real mom who kisses boo-boos and wants to feed you and is proud of you no matter what you do, and she wants to feed you, and she gives hugs that make you stop breathing because she is squeezing so hard. She kisses you, and it isn’t just a quick peck.

She gives advice even if you don’t want it, and she isn’t afraid to tell you what you are doing wrong with your own kids. Growing up, my mom waited on her family. She would fix dinner and everyone’s plates and then she would fix her own.

She went to all of my sports events and band concerts and volunteered at my school. She drove me to school and picked me up no matter how late at night. She was home when I arrived home from school ready to hear about my day.

She doesn’t mind when I wake her up at 7 a.m. to talk as I drive to work.

She fought cancer, lost all of her hair, and got better. She is now in remission.

She has five children, 12 grandchildren, 3 stepgrandchildren, and 8 great grandchildren with another one cooking. (Blame me if my counts are off.)

I threaten to turn her into Clean House or Horders, and she would not be happy if I did it. Once in a while, I will go and help her sort through things convincing her to throw things away.

When I feel like wasting my time, I will sort her silverware drawer. It will last less than 24 hours because she just throws her silverware into a drawer.

She can’t go to sleep if there are dirty dishes in her sink.

She can’t operate a computer, but she has a laptop. She will call me and say, “Linda, why is my computer doing this?” And she asks as if I can see her computer, and I know exactly what it is doing.

She likes to watch Game Network Channel, and she prefers to read biographies.

She refuses to balance her checkbook the correct way. Instead, she goes into the bank and has them give her a print out. She marks things off as she gets they go through, but she doesn’t balance to her monthly statement. The ladies at her bank know her, and they help her.

Happy birthday, Mom. I love you.

My mom is 74 today, and I love her.

This picture was taken of me and my mom on my 39th birthday. :)

Aches and Pains

I cannot wait for winter to be over. I feel like the cold air gives my body permission to complain more than normal.

I wake up in the morning with sore knees. My toes on my right feet are tired of being shoved into winter boots. My elbows and wrists are sore and achy.

After a while, my body’s kinks and complaints ease. The house warms up again. My muscles start moving more smoothly.

But that early morning snowy morning aches and pains? I can do without.

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Single Parenting

I have been bad about blogging this past week, and I think it has something to do with my husband being gone this past week. He left Monday afternoon, and my last blog was Tuesday.

I do not like single parenting. It gets overwhelming just going in the various directions to pick children up.

I was very happy to have my husband back Thursday evening. Then it was catching up, unpacking, laundry and just being glad that I had someone once again to “tag team” with for this parenting stuff.

(I actually wrote this post, Sunday, Feb. 26. I fudged it to fill in some blank posts.)

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