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The Whine about Diet Changes

My 16-year-old daughter is falling apart. In less than a week, she has learned that she is lactose intolerant AND her vision is failing.

OK, her vision isn’t failing. She is still perfectly legal to drive without the aid of any corrective lenses, but a small prescription would make it easier for her to see things like the white board in a classroom.

She is struggling with her contact lenses. She doesn’t like them and feels like they are making her vision worse when she attempts to read close up.

The day she heard she needed contacts was not a good day for her. She felt sorry for herself just a little bit.

As I prepared dinner, she was talking to me about how hard changing her diet had been.

In a pathetic and frustrated tone, she whined, “Do you know how hard it is to change your entire diet?”

Even as the words crossed her lips, I could see the realization move across her face. She was, after all, talking to her mother who had spent several months last year on an entirely liquid diet. And since that time, my diet is still primarily liquid and very different from anything I’ve ever eaten in the past.

“Forget it,” she said, almost as soon as she finished uttering her question.

Six Month Post-op

My six-month post-op appointment is quickly approaching. Officially, my appointment is exactly 26 weeks after my surgery date. My surgery was on a Tuesday, and my appointment is also on a Tuesday. Twenty-six weeks is actually 6.5 months if you count a month as four weeks. If you count a month as the 9th to the 9th, it is still two days short of my six-month anniversary.

I had surgery August 9, 2011 and my appointment is Feb. 7, 2012.

Before my surgery, I had hoped that I would have lost all of my excess weight by my six-month appointment. That’s right, all 115 pounds.

I have lost 65 pounds since my surgery, so I am not yet at goal. I have had several stalls, which I hadn’t really considered before my surgery.

Still, I am two pounds away from the 180s, and I would like to lose those 2 pounds before my appointment Tuesday.

Although, truth be told, even if I did manage to do that, it wouldn’t necessarily be reflected at my doctor’s office since my appointment is at 1 p.m., and I will weigh in with clothes on.

But I would feel better, and it is a goal. It also ignores that fact that I haven’t lost any weight in more than a week. It’s about time, don’t you think?

I am getting frustrated with the scales. I know I’m not supposed to rely on them, and this has proven completely true. The other day, I was completely dressed including boots. I stepped on the scale, and it said 192. My naked weight has been stalled at 191, so I figured if I shed the clothes and boots, I would be less than 191.

I stripped down naked and stepped on the scale again. It still said 192. No difference at all, but it also put me a pound over my low weight. :(

So I complained loudly and proclaimed that I hated the scales. Then, for the heck of it, I put just my boots (which were heavy) on the scales. They weighed in at 1.4 pounds. So shouldn’t 192 – 1.4 be less than 192? Plus the weight of the boots doesn’t even consider that I was wearing a pair of jeans, shirt, jacket and undies.

Scale math — I do not understand it.

Anyway, the good news is that I am seeing other changes. For instance, I can feel a very distinct toned muscle in my thighs. It is still hidden a bit by flab, but I can feel it. It wasn’t there before, so progress.

I don’t really have any concerns or questions to discuss at my six-month appointment. I know that I need to keep up my exercise (if not expand it), and I really need to up my water intake. It is something I tend to slack at (always have).

What I’m Wearing

I had asked for opinions on various options for me to wear to an upcoming Valentine’s ball. I appreciate all of the input.

I ended up going shopping AGAIN and bought yet another dress (or two). It is that dress that I will be wearing to the ball. I will post pictures of it the day of the ball (or the next day).

The good news? The dress was only $15.

Valentine’s Votes

I am trying to decide what to wear to the ball. I have four choices right now, and I am asking for opinions. The dress on the right is purple not blue. The long dress also comes with a short black jacket, but I think that ends up being a bit too much black:

And before you decide, here are the dresses from the side. I took pictures from the back too, but I’m not going to put those up.

So what do you think?

Should I still be shopping?

Note: The hair is just messy. The boots are just the boots I was wearing today and not the shoes I’d be wearing.

Note #2: My husband said that it looks like different people because the size of me isn’t consistent. That is because of my photographer (my daughter). I didn’t try to fix it in Photoshop either. Sorry. It is what it is.

Vote and explain your choices in the comments. Thanks!

Bariatric Ball

I was trying on dresses today. I have the floor-length velvet formal with the slit up the back, the very short little black dress that scoops across the chest and has two peek-a-boo slits on the long sleeves, or the spaghetti strap hankerchief dress in various shades of orange. I even tried on a prom dress that one of my daughter’s wore last year just because I could.

Why? Because I am going to a real ball. One that requires fancy clothes and involves dinner and dancing. I even have a date (my husband), and we plan on staying overnight at the fancy hotel.

It’s the 6th annual Valentine’s Dance hosted by my physicians. Last year, more than 180 people attended.

I am excited. I just have to figure out what I’m going to wear and what hubby is going to wear.

Do I want to wear something long? Or short?

What would you wear?

I think I like this:

But I am interested in wearing a little black dress as well.

I don’t know what I will wear yet, but I am having fun thinking about it. :)

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