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Summer Slow Down

girlsreunionI haven’t been blogging very much, and I blame summer. My life is different in the summer, and I have not always had easy access to the internet despite having wi-fi on my laptop. This is because I have been in areas of Michigan where there hasn’t been wi-fi (or electricity for that matter), and when I do have wi-fi access, I have to use it for work first, which means little to no time to play (except for Facebook).

So what have I been doing?

In June, I went to a conference for a week and then immediately came back and went on vacation for two weeks and that brought us into July. And then I had to figure out what it was like to be home and put everything away, which took a week. And then I was gone again. And I was gone most of last week to spend with hubby before he left this week to work in West Virginia. And now I am home again with a week to once again put my house in order.

You would think the house would be in order because we haven’t been here very much, but when you arrive home after being away, you have lots and lots of things to put away and lots and lots of laundry.

Somewhere in there, I had my 20-year class reunion. I enjoyed myself, and I was glad I went. It was great reconnecting with everyone. I do think, however, that I should have insisted my husband go to the dinner with me. He keeps me in line. I tend to say things without thinking. Nothing horribly bad, but they did make people ask me what I was drinking because apparently people who I went to high school with don’t think I would say those things unless I was drunk. I wasn’t drunk.

I didn’t say anything rude. I just talked about things that happened in the past, but the things I mentioned some spouses weren’t aware of, and I didn’t think the spouses might not know. I have a big mouth and a long memory. Sorry.

And now things seem very slow because Steve is working in West Virginia this week, and I hope he returns home soon.

The rest of the summer is quickly filling up. We will be canoeing the AuSable at the end of the month, dancing at the Red Barn (technically, it is now the Ole Barn), and attending a Kid Rock concert. We also would like to take some time out to take the kids to an amusement park. We’ll see how it all goes together.

Should I be worried?

After picking up the mail today, Amanda asked if she could open a card. I said yes.

After she opened it, I realized the card wasn’t addressed to me like I thought but rather to Amanda’s little sister. When I realized this, I told Amanda, “You just opened someone else’s mail. That is illegal!”

Her reply:

“It’s not the first time I’ve done something illegal.”

She didn’t even have to think about it!

It is confirmed, I now have two teenagers to worry about!

She did explain though — she mentioned she rode in the back of a truck before (in a parade and on way to parade), and she has driven vehicles but does not yet have a license.

And so my brief worry about my daughter’s rebel nature turned out to be a waste of time. What’s more — it seems that her parents are the only bad influences in her life right now.

Whoops.

What to Wear?

I hadn’t really thought about it until she asked. I was on Facebook, and my date for my 20 year class reunion asked me what I planned to wear.

I should clarify that my date is my best friend from high school. She introduced me to my husband. We named our oldest daughter after her. Shortly after she was married, we had our 10 year class reunion. Her husband didn’t want to go, and my husband was racing, so we went together. We plan to do this again this year.

So back to the conundrum — what DO I wear? Or should I be more worried about what my children will wear to the family picnic? After all, my son tries to change his clothes as little as often.

Nope. I definitely need to figure out what to wear. It is supposed to be casual.

I wouldn’t be so worried except at the 10 year reunion, three women showed up wearing the exact same outfit.

I think tomorrow I’ll have to spend some quality time going through my closet.

Give a Mom a Fridge

fridgeand she’ll soon realize she has to rethink the entire decorating style of her kitchen….

In case you haven’t heard me whine about this already, (and I haven’t done so here – Yet) my fridge died. It was a slow death that was really very sad because we just bought the fridge 7 years ago. The death started about a month ago with a mysterious yellowish fluid at the bottom of my fridge. I thought maybe something was leaking, and I cleaned out my fridge. I didn’t find anything that could cause the yellow stuff, but I wasn’t too worried about it. I have children after all, which means mysteries happen.

But things quit working or rather quit keeping things cool. It started with my freezer, and it slowly moved on to the regular fridge. A camping trip allowed us to empty the fridge and leave it unplugged in case anything was frozen up. When we came back, I plugged it back in. Within a day or so, I realized the fridge was running but not keeping anything cool. I moved everything to the camper fridge, and I threw away anything questionable.

Which meant that today, hubby and I went fridge shopping. Back in March, I had rearranged our kitchen and placed our fridge kiddy-corner from where it used to be. Hubby was still getting used to going to the opposite side of the kitchen to grab something from the fridge.

When we went shopping, we were looking for certain features. I wanted a freezer on the bottom, and I would have really liked a French-door fridge, but I figured it was WAY out of our price range. I also didn’t want to buy the brand of the fridge we were replacing. Still, just a freezer on the bottom is a pricey addition to the fridge search. All of our appliances are white, and I didn’t expect we’d change that.

Then, we actually went shopping. Lowe’s had a French-door fridge on sale for under $1,000, which was about the price I expected to pay for the freezer-bottom fridge I was looking for. Plus, the salesman pointed out that there was a dent in the fridge, so he was pretty sure we’d be able to get even more off the price. But it was not white. It was stainless-look.

I was really loving the idea of a French-door fridge, but I was a little leary of the dent, and the stainless-look wasn’t fooling me. The dent was in the top corner, and it had also cracked the hinge on the inside. I was worried about how the crack would deteriorate over time. I can handle a dent, but I didn’t need a door that would fall off. But it was the French-door style!

In the meantime, I wasn’t seeing anything else I wanted. I kept wandering the aisles checking everything out, and hubby wasn’t sure he wanted a fridge with the freezer on the bottom. He was worried freezer items would be buried and forgotten. Plus, my daughter Amanda was with us, and she wanted a fridge with a water/ice dispenser although I wasn’t so sure about that.

Hubby saw a side-by-side that he liked, and he wanted me to look at it. It had the water dispenser Amanda wanted, which is usually what I don’t like about the side-by-sides — they take up all the freezer space. But Whirlpool has this new ice maker thing that is in the door and doesn’t take up space. Plus, it was stainless-steel (the real stuff), 25.4 cubic feet and under $1,000, and the salesman pointed out that certain brands (including Whirlpool) were 10 percent off today, and we were sold for under $900.

Besides the price, I am in love with the new fridge. It is huge even for a side-by-side. It has a water-filtered water dispenser and an ice dispenser. The water/ice panel is fancy and computerized with little lights, and it has a little indicator that will tell us when we need to replace the water filter.

I knew when we bought it that the new fridge would not fit where the old fridge went, but I kept an open mind. I was hoping it would fit, but it didn’t. The space is 32 inches, and the new fridge is over 36 inches wide. The new shelving units I had installed where the fridge used to be (before March) had to be removed. The new fridge fits in the original old spot, but there is no longer any room for shelves next to it.

In the meantime, the new shelves won’t fit where the old fridge was at either. They are wider than 32 inches. This is a problem because before the old fridge, the space held a dishwasher, so the flooring in our kitchen didn’t extend to this corner. This means we will have to do one of the following:

  1. Buy a new dishwasher;
  2. Buy a new base cupboard; OR
  3. Install new flooring

OK, new flooring is out of the question. A new dishwasher would have to be a Whirlpool stainless steel to match, which means another $600 at least and that isn’t happening. So we need to buy a nice base cupboard that will fit. OK, that will take care of that corner.

But then where am I going to put the pantries, and if I don’t figure out where to put them, where am I going to put all of the stuff that was in the pantries? Will I be able to fit the stuff into the new arrangement? My kitchen is only 12×12, and it has two doorways including one very large doorway, so there isn’t a lot of space to work with to begin with, and the new fridge is huge.

Now I have to figure out a way to make everything fit and keep the extra storage space without spending any more money (or at least not very much money). After all, now I need to save up to replace my white stove and microwave with the stainless-steel versions…. I’m not in a hurry to do that, but it will be a goal.

Childless

Today, I was home throughout the entire work day by myself. I did not have to referee any fights between siblings. I had no one to tell to do the dishes (they aren’t done yet). And I was able to clean the house, and it STAYED clean.

It was weird. When you have four children, you don’t usually have times where you are absolutely alone — especially when it is summertime, and the children are not leaving every day to go to school.

So where did my children go?

Two of them went to their friends’ house where they could argue with each other in front of someone else’s mother. (Autumn and Maxine’s best friends are sisters, too.)

Justin, after lots of worry and angst, finally was able to make plans with a friend. He usually gets left out. I’ve learned after having three girls and a boy that boys just don’t plan as many get togethers as girls do. Plus, he isn’t as good at getting his friends’ phone numbers, and with everyone giving up home phones for cell phones, if you don’t know the number, you are out of luck.

And that just left Amanda who hasn’t been home for three weeks. Sniff. OK, technically, I was with her for those first two weeks because we were camping, but this last week she has been off on her own at (sniff) ranch camp. I’m sure she is missing me horribly, and I am sure she could not be distracted by spending the week with horses and sleeping just up a small hill from the barn. Right. I’m not sure Amanda even missed Lilly this week.

That meant last night, my husband and I were in our house alone. We did something really unusual — we had banana split blizzards. (Don’t tell the kids.)

But tonight, one child is home (Justin), and the husband is already in bed, and I am once alone for all intents and purposes alone with my computer.

And tomorrow? Tomorrow, everyone comes home! I am supposed to pick Amanda up from ranch camp at 2 p.m. Do you think she will mind if I arrive at noon? It isn’t like I’ll make her leave early — there is a little bit of a rodeo where the ranch camp kids show off their new skills on the horse.

And my house will once again be filled with bickering siblings, and I will be happier. What the….?

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