15. You aren’t afraid to laugh loud and hard. The sound of your laugh can make me feel good, and it also makes it very easy for me to find you.
14. Your cheerleading tendencies — I know you would hate being called a cheerleader (I’m sure you are rolling your eyes as you read this), but you do a BEAUTIFUL job of cheering on your friends and team mates. You never fail to tell someone when they are doing a good job, and you work very hard to get other people motivated and fired up. I like hearing your chatter when you play sports.
13. When you are grumpy and tired and your siblings won’t leave you alone, you find me and curl up next to me and call me Mommy.
12. Your independence — you know what you want and you know what you need to do (although this one does sometimes get you in trouble when you’ve been told you can’t do it).
11. When I am cooking dinner and a sibling or your dad distracts me, you take over stirring the food without being asked. This is usually done without either one of us realizing it, but you have saved more than one dinner from being burned and for that, I suspect, the rest of the family loves you too.
10. Your ability as a writer — you write amazing stories that I love to read.You are a very talented fiction writer.
9. Your voice when you sing (if not all of your musical selections)
8. Your attempts to manipulate me even when you know they won’t work.
7. Your ability to admit when you are wrong even if your agreement is only to me and only lasts for the length of the trip in the car.
6. Your curly hair even though you prefer it straightened. I love the way you look with your head full of curls.
5. The redness of your cheeks and the blue of your eyes.
4. When you finish reading a really good book and your first words to me are “Mom, you HAVE to read this” and then you tell me why.
3. Watching you play softball — you are good, and I love the way your eyes sparkle when you catch a fly ball. (I enjoy watching you play any sport, but your love for softball shines through.)
2. Listening to you talk about your day — you are always so animated and excited.
1. That there are signs that my 15 years of nagging are starting to pay off. For instance, this morning when you went into the mudroom and noticed your siblings were not following the system that you created, and you wondered out loud how long it would take before they figured it out. Based on your own learning curve, I estimate 13 years of nagging. Luckily, I started nagging them long before you did, so you won’t have to wait the full 13 years.
Happy Birthday, Autumn!
P.S. Where is my Klondike bar?