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Roaring for Leos

Today is July 30, so you know what that means?

If you are my older brother, Chuckie, (or Chuck as he prefers), it means today is your birthday. And it’s not just any birthday, it’s the big 5-0!

If you are me, however, it means you will turn 35 in just 20 days.

And I just can’t believe I have a 50-year-old brother! Especially a 50-year-old brother capable of still acting like a 12-year-old when he gets a video-game controller in his hand. (Yeah, as far as I know the world revolves around me — it’s a Leo thing.)

Happy Birthday Chuck! I love you.

(P.S. My grad-school friend Giggy (a fellow Leo) now has a Blog at Blogger, (http://giggy38.blogspot.com/) she has a great post about going to Home Depot looking for something. It reminded me that I have a sexism story to tell y’all too, but it will have to wait because I have to go back to homework. Sniff.)

Look at that — a trio of Leos — Chuckie, Giggy, and Me. That reminds me of that Kermit song about rainbows — the lovers, the dreames and me…ladedadi…

What’s that? Me? Distracted? Nah. Homework. Right on it. Yep. OK. Going. I am. Thanks for playing. But it really is a good sexism story. I hope I remember it…

Happy Birthday Chuckie!

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So Not Fair

I am in the midst of Week 5 of my six-week summer session of Grad classes (two of them, no less!) And what should arrive in the mail? Take a guess. Or click the link.

So NOT fair.

I have homework. Heaping piles of homework. And I want to abandon it all in favor of Nonny….

Last Thursday, I so did not want to go to class. We were going camping on Friday and I wanted to go early. I mentioned the possibility of skipping. Steve said absolutely not. I was stuck on the phrase in one of the syllabuses that said I had one freebie absence. I so wanted a freebie.

That night, at home, the kids were all for me skipping. That’s when I listened to my husband explain to my children why skipping was a bad thing and something that should not be done. Oh yeah, right. I have kids. I forgot about being a good example and all. So there was no way I could possibly skip. I was convinced. As nice as it would be, I can’t skip for the kids’ sake. After all, I have to teach them something.

Then Thursday morning came, and hubby said, "You’re skipping, right?" Um. No. But the guy doesn’t make it easy on a girl to do the right thing.

Then I went to my classes. In the first one, there was some great discussion that I’m so glad I didn’t miss. And in the second one, again good stuff, but even more — a huge pile of homework to be done by Tuesday. A fellow classmate did skip, and she e-mailed me. I faxed her everything we were supposed to do (except I forgot the reading handouts). I faxed her 19 pages. NINETEEN PAGES! And remember, I failed to fax the reading. Plus in the other class, I had to read an entire book and write a two-page reader response. All between Thursday and Tuesday, and remember I went camping! Yes, once again, I did homework by a campfire. And my in-laws all think I’m nuts because everytime they ask if I finished my homework, I said no, not yet. Then I’d get "what have you been doing?" Let me just reiterate — NINETEEN PAGES and a BOOK and HANDOUTS.

I am so glad I’m not the skipping kind of person. But I do wish I could find a hole in the fabric of time once in a while so I can do a bunch of my homework AND still manage to read Between, Georgia. Maybe today’s the day to skip.

One more week.

Thanks for Playing.

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Camping with Style

Remember how I spent two weeks (roughly) camping in a tent around the Fourth of July? Yeah. I heart air mattresses. Is it any surprise that after doing that, less than a week later, we had a Campernew addition to the family? May I just say  that this is not our tent.

It came in handy last week when we lost power for days because it turns out that small spaces cool down a lot faster than an entire house without the aid of fans and air conditioners.

Then last weekend we took it on its maiden voyage to Silver Lake. I think it is easier to set up and take down a camper than it is a tent. But the part I liked the best? When we arrived home, about 80 percent of the stuff that is normally taking up all of the space in my kitchen, living room and garage waiting to be put away is still in the camper because that’s where it belongs. Things like out sleeping bags (six of them), and the lanterns and lawn chairs (five of those), water guns, tarps and all that stuff. Much easier.

You can’t see it in the photo, but this camper has a slide-out where the couch and dining table are at. Plus the couch and table are longer than a lot of camper couches and tables. It sleeps six. As we packed for the trip, Steve and I were both amazed that we still had a lot of empty storage areas. It was nice.

We purchased it used from the original owners. They had bought it to place on their property up north (where I live) with the intention of building a house eventually. Shortly after they bought the camper, things happened and the house was built a lot sooner than they expected, so the camper was never really used. Once in a while a visiting relative would stay in it overnight. It still smelled new.

Funny story — we had intended to buy a small tag along camper that had been for sale for quite a while just down the road from my in-laws house. We’d called on it, but the people never answered (frustrating) or returned our calls. Still the camper sat out by the road with the sign. I’d stopped and looked at it three times. It was a 1994, slept seven and was just 22 feet long. We figured it would be a good starter camper and we’d get something else down the road, but for now this would be good. The day we went to buy it, it wasn’ t out by the road. I spotted it pulled way back, hidden in the trees, but Steve figured someone else had bought it, so we went driving around just looking. That’s when we saw the one we did buy, which wasn’t that much more money, but was one that we wouldn’t have to improve upon for years, if ever, you know? So we bought that one. The day we hauled it home to our house, we had to go by the spot where that other camper was for sale. Guess what was out by the road again? And I was so happy we didn’t settle.

The camper we bought is a 2001, and sleeps six. It has the slide-out, which is fantastic. Plus it has a real master bedroom with a closing door. OK, so it’s the accordion door, but it still closes. Plus, when the door is closed, the rest of the camper still has access to the nice large bathroom without opening that door. This is important. (Remember — I have four kids.) The kitchen area is small (not a lot of extra counter space, but it does have a drop down counter to make up for that). Plus, when we camp, we tend to do most of our cooking outside. The fridge is nice and large. The bathroom is big. I even took a shower in it last weekend, and it worked great. One of my favorite things about the camper is it has big windows. The back end is pretty much all window, and that will offer a great view backed up to a lake where we camp a lot. I’m very happy with it.

My daughter, the blogger

My oldest daughter has a blog and I made her set it up so when someone comments, a copy of the comment is e-mailed to me. I think it’s a good thing, and she is aware of it. So, the other day, one of her friends commented on her blog, "wtf?" They are 12, and they say "wtf"? Nice. Any who, the next comment I received by e-mail was from my daughter. It said (in all caps, no less) "NAME! MY MOM GETS THE COMMENTS!!!!!" Notice the five exclamation points. Ha.

My children, the con artists

Last night my children had a presentation for Steve and I. They’ve done it before, and it usually involves singing and things. They like to perform and I was expecting more of the same. Justin, my 7-year-old is the MC. He would be a more effective MC if he quit bouncing all around, but he did manage to introduce his sisters in the correct order. First up, Maxine. Her part started with something like, "We hope you’ll wait a half hour or an hour and really think about our presentation before you decide. The worst thing would be just to say no without thinking."

Not thinking is definitely a bad thing. I’ll save you the full spiel. Basically they want something and not just anything — they want two donkeys and two minature horses. They went this route because we’ve already said no to horses, and somehow they think donkeys would be cheaper/less work? They presented nice drawings surrounded by little clouds saying what they would do if they had a donkey — (short list is) feed it, pay for it, wash it, water it, build stall, build fence, love it, groom it, muck its stall, give it love, etc.

They had a pretty substantial list of things they would need to have two donkeys too — the materials to build its stall and fence (actually broken down), hay, straw, halter, lead rope, grain bucket, grooming kit, wtaer tub, etc. And they had a substantial list of things they could do to earn money to pay for everything: babysitting, chores, mow lawns, keep room clean, wash cars, walk dogs, clean garage, stack wood, yard sale, chop wood (maybe), from birthday, tooth fairy and work for Granny. Then in big capital letters at the bottom "DON’T SPEND!"

Do all this, and the kids assured us they would be HAPPY.

All in all a pretty good presentation, that they put some time and thought into. Although I suspect they copied (at least parts) it from a movie/TV show.

Down side — less than an hour before the presentation, I asked the kids to pick up some things at the bottom of the stairs. Maybe 5 things total including a book, a sock, a shoe and some small items. You would have thought I’d broke their arm(s). Steve asked the oldest to sweep the stairs and instead of swept stairs we got tattling (they aren’t helping), and tears (not from the parents), and very near a break down(again not parents). Plus, when I checked on it, she swept the stairs but never bothered to pick up the pile of dust bunnies from the floor at the bottom of the stairs.

Maybe the donkeys would be happy in a recently vacated tent. Thanks for playing.

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Sporadic blogger checking in

I am in week four of two six week grad classes, so I am indeed a sporadic blogger, as Kim mentioned in her recent blog about spores. When I am not working or doing homework, I try to get away from the computer, out of the house and spend time with my husband and kids. Luckily, they’ve been there waiting for me.  So that’s my excuse. Sorry Mom.

I woke up at 5 a.m. this morning intending to write an article and get my homework done today. Instead I spent the last 40 minutes reading e-mail on a list serve. Luckily, it was e-mail on the writing program list serve, which is a required read for one of my classes. The thread was about having children and being on the tenure track, which of course was very interesting to me. On at least one occassion I feel that I lost a job because I didn’ t hide the fact that I have children, and face it with four kids, I HAVE children.

Last semester one of my professors led a class discussion about what lots of short paragraphs might say to a potential reader who hasn’t yet started reading the writing. Of course, he was referring to the first assignment I turned into him. I am the queen of short paragraphs, although I am adapting. But my biggest concern isn’t the length of my paragraphs, but what the number of my children say to someone. It isn’ t a good feeling to realize that your children have HURT your chances for a job. Although, I will say that my children have rarely if never interfered with me completing a job. I can’t say the same about my job never interfering with my family life.

Maybe I’m being naive, and my co-workers and bosses would have something different to say about my family committments. I just know that I’ve always got my job done, and have done some out of the way things to get it done. I don’t miss a lot of work either.

But back to the tenure discussion, it was fascinating. I was just very impressed in what everyone had to say and how well they said it. Women and men talked about it in very interesting terms.

So what am I doing in my classes? I’m developing my teaching philosophy and coming up with the theory behind the philosophy (complete with citations). I am researching commenting on student papers and (hopefully) the pros and cons of commenting with the computer versus commenting with a pen. I’m also doing a historical editing complete with annotations. Two weeks to go and then I get three weeks without doing anything. Well, you know, except lesson plans and syllabuses and so on and so forth…. Not to mention my summer job requirements (the reporter gig).

So yeah, definitely a sporadic blogger. Thanks for playing.

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Sleep Patterns

I woke up at 3:45 a.m., and Steve (the hubby) asked if I was going to get up. No, I said. And then I tried to sleep. I finally gave up and did get up. Then I tried to get work done — aka all of that work that started entering my head as soon as I woke up and kept me from going back to sleep. So I got up.

And what have I done? I’ve turned on two computers and surfed the Internet looking for updated blogs. I read e-mail sent to me, and did do some reading related to my Teaching Composition class. But right now? It’s 4:46 a.m. and my living room is not air conditioned. I think I am going back to my bedroom where it is at least 20 degrees cooler. And hopefully, I’ll sleep this time.

The rest of my to-do list will have to wait for a reasonable hour. Keep in mind I have a very warped idea of reasonable.

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