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The family who whines together…

Yesterday morning Steve and I went walking. We’re trying to get back in the habit. Basically involves us getting up very early and leaving our home and walking for a few miles.

Yesterday was foggy and I managed to put on a bra before leaving. So I got a bright/dumb idea. We decided to jog.

I didn’t jog long. My right leg started to hurt. A lot. Steve kept running. I started walking. Limping. Steve turned around and started heading back towards me, and as he got closer I ran a tiny bit more. Then we walked side by side. Not talking. Barely breathing. Or actually, gasping quite a bit trying to breathe. Or maybe that was just me.

Background: in 1997 on Dec. 28, I broke my ankle. It required a week of pain meds, four days in the hospital, and a surgery where they inserted three screws. I was the mother of three and the youngest was 7 months and I was on crutches until April. There was rehab. There have been two surgeries since then. I still limp every day. It used to be just my first step of the day. Now it’s my first few steps of the day. Plus it acts up when the weather gets nasty. In others words, my ankle is screwed up.

More background: In May, hubby hit a tree with his dirt bike and hurt his foot (but not breaking it). He was on crutches too. For six weeks he rehabbed. Then the doctor smacked his forehead and declared him "Cured!" And Steve said, "Good, because I want to do things and my wife won’t let me. But it still hurts, and um, it’s still swollen." And the doctor said, "Get over it. It’s healing. Expect it."

So. Steve did the running thing a few more times, and then he’d return to me and we’d walk. As he walked by me, every once in a while he said I was slowing down, so I’d speed up.  Well, as much as a turtle can speed up.

Before we were halfway, the pain went out of my right shin and settled in my ankle. It ached. But I walked. Keep in mind that of the three different ways we walk in the morning, this one is the shortest. It was about a mile and a half total. And unlike Steve, I didn’t run very much.

We arrived home, and I smelled bad. Good. I’d worked out. I moved my ankle around, listening to the click-clicking of something that I’m pretty sure isn’t supposed to click-click. Steve told me to stop. It wasn’t as if I was trying to do something outside the range of a normal ankle, but my ankle is not normal and its range is most definitely limited.

By the time we both got back home last night after our day of working, we were both whining. Both of Steve’s feet hurt after being on cement all day. I was aware of my ankle, but it seemed OK. This morning, however? Ow. It hurts to walk on. Definitely a tennis shoes day. It’s going to take more than a few steps to get rid of my limp today. Steve didn’t mention his feet hurting this morning. Last nigth, however, as we sat on the couch, it was ME that had to get up off the couch to go let the dogs in. I was all for letting them stay outside. But Steve was worried about our door.

This morning? We skipped the walk in order to let our bodies recover. We’ll walk again tomorrow. But I think it’ll be a long while before I suggest running again. Whine. Whimper.

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Undefeated

JustinbaseballThis is the last week for Little League games. I am happy that I will no longer be traveling to hither and yon every single weekday and some weekends too, but I will miss watching the games.

Justin’s pitching machine team has had a fantastic year. They completed a perfect season last night, winning every game including the last very fun game against family members. That’s him with a trophy and a game ball autographed by his coach.

Justin has a tendency to daydream a bit when he is playing in the field. So during the last game, I noticed he was standing sideways looking at something other than the game. I suspect he was watching parked cars. I waited for the coach to say something, but when he didn’t, I yelled, "Justin." Then the coach noticed, so he yelled at Justin a couple of times, but Justin wasn’t moving. Probably because Justin wasn’t Justin. I apparently can’t recognize my own kid. Justin was doing just what he was supposed to be doing, which explains why Steve sitting next to me couldn’t figure out what I (and then the coach) was yelling about. Neither could Justin. In all fairness, my child was hidden from my vision by the pitching machine. And the two do look similar — after all they are the same size wearing gray pants and a blue shirt with a hat.

FatherandsonHaving said that I can’ t tell which kid is mine, you are now forced to  accept my word when I say that the photo on the left is my husband and son. Steve’s playing shortstop and Justin is considering stealing third base. They are trying to intimidate each other, or rather, trying not to crack up laughing. I’m happy to report that Justin safely made it by his dad to third and went on to score for the team. 

We were really blessed this year to have some awesome coaches working with our kids. During Justin’s teams’s last real game, the coach’s son made an excellent hit that went deep into center field. And the centerfield player on the other team reached out and caught it. The look on that kid’s face was priceless. He was so proud of himself! And our coach was so excited that he ran out into centerfield and gave the kid a high-five and said a few words. As he ran back to the pitching mound, he also said some nice words to his son. It’s nice to see support for both teams. You lose that in the games for the older kids.

Tonight, after their regular game, Autumn and Amanda’s team will have a cookout and play a kickball game against the parents. I won’t be able to be there because my classes start today, and I’ll be in class. Their last game is on Thursday. They walk around practicing their pitching technique. They’ve had a good season. In one game both Autumn and Amanda caught a pop-up, getting an out for their team. It was right after they’d practiced pop-ups with their dad. The looks on their faces are priceless!

This is the age (majors) where it seems people quit cheering for the other side. Luckily, none of the teams my kids are on seems to do that. But at one game, the parents on the other team were so bad! The coach even threw a fit at the umpire about strikes vs. balls, so he threw her out of the game. She didn’t even leave nicely, but had to threaten him on the way out. She’s a member of the board, apparently. The sad thing is that she’s a school teacher.

Maxine’s last game is tomorrow and I will make it to that one.  She is having a lot of fun too, but she is bummed that her uniform is pink. She likes to play catcher. She’s played every position, and she likes that she has been able to try different positions. During her last game she even tried her hand at pitching. She didn’t pitch long, but she had fun.

My in-laws have claimed my children this week. Steve and I (mostly Steve) are still shuttling them to games, but for the most part my children are spending the day camping, swimming and bike riding. I go home and sleep in my bed. Next week we’re all on vacation (except for one day of classes for me on Thursday), so I will be sleeping in a tent. So doesn’t that make this week –technically– my vacation? I think so.

Have to get to class. Thanks for playing.

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Happy Birthday AGK!

Go see Angela at http://www.angelagilesklocke.com and wish her a happy birthday! It’s not just any old birthday either. It’s the big 3-0!

She’s a great person, friend, writer, photographer, mother and has the best cashier stories ever.

Why are you still here? Go. Scoot.

Happy Birthday, AGK!

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Sum-sum-summer

It’s summertime! I am not in school and I can relax and enjoy myself and do absolutely nothing.

(This is where I take a big old whif of the coffee.)

So it’s only four days until my next semester starts, but I plan to do nothing productive those four days. Well, except for the two days of that when I have to work. Yeah, so I have the weekend. But it’s the weekend without homework! ;-)

I was a bit misleading in my last cryptic post. It was final exam week, but I didn’t actually have a final exam. I had a final project and on Thursday I had to present my project to the class. We had the option of writing an original Young Adult novel. It didn’t even have to be finished. Did I take that option? No. I can’t write fiction. OK, maybe that’s not completely true. The truth would be that I write bad fiction.

But Giggy and Bud, my fellow grad friends, both wrote original YA and it was GOOD. Actually, I was very impressed with everyone who wrote YA. So many of them just seemed to capture the voice. One girl had two characters telling the story, and when she read it to us I could tell the difference in the characters. I think that’s amazing.

Thanks to the class that I just finished, I have a huge list of YA books that I want to read. Every class period, we’d tell the class about the books we were reading, and there’s a lot of books I didn’t get to. Several classmates on Thursday said they’d spent a good chunk of money on books recently and the class is over, but they were intrigued. Giggy did that too, and she bought all of Todd Strasser’s books (spelling may be wrong). I’m going to have to borrow them. He wrote Give a boy a gun.

Although I didn’t write fiction, I did do something I’ve never done before — I created a Power Point presentation. Later in the class, one of my fellow students mentioned her son (age 12) had done a power point presentation. Just pop that balloon. But seriously, I thought it was fun to do, and I’m glad I know how to do it now.

I think my family is going to go camping soon. Want to envy me? We’ll be camping at a rustic campground. Now my idea of a rustic campground is no wifi, but this one is really ancient. There’s not even electric hook-ups. Luckily it’s near our home, so I will definitely be spending time there. There being home. I can’t do grad class homework from an ancient campground. Oh, did I mention we will be in a tent? Actually, I enjoy camping there, and I even enjoy the tent (the air mattress really helps with that).

Now, I must go do nothing. Thanks for playing.

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Final Exam Week

‘Nuff Said. See you Friday.

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