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School is starting soon, right?

My son just came up to me and said, "Amanda hit me four times." He repeated it when I didn’t respond.

He was followed shortly by Amanda who said, "The reason why I did it is he was making fun of my name."

The two continued their conversation without a word for me. Tattling is happening at light speed in my house this summer.

Frankly, if I were a child living in this house I would most likely be hitting someone as well. Grrrr. Alas, I’m an adult and so I must just prevent blood spill and complain to the Internet about the mysteries of children who misbehave and purposefully do things to tick one another off.

School starts Aug. 23. I was thinking of that as I read the various ad papers for school supplies. I should really get started and kind of spread out the horrible costs of buying supplies for four. I vividly remember last year when a cashier asked me if I was a teacher stocking up for my classroom. Nope, just a mother of four.

Can you believe the price of backpacks? Makes me wish I had stocked up last spring, but really I didn’t want to store them all year long.

And how in the heck can I go shopping for school clothes when we barely have enough room for all of the clothes the kids have now? We have a LOT of storage space for clothes, but these kids (especially the girls) have a ton of clothes. Yet they never seem to have anything to wear. Imagine that.

Unfortunately there’s still nearly four weeks of summer vacation. In the meantime, I’ll just be dreaming of that big yellow bus coming along and rescuing me.

Thanks for playing.

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CSI: Parenting

Amanda just came downstairs claiming that Autumn had bit her. She showed me two bite marks on her right hand. Nothing to break the surface, but enough to leave a mark.

Autumn had just been downstairs complaining that Amanda jumped on the computer as soon as Autumn stood up for two seconds. I had sent orders that Amanda was to get off the computer and give  it back to her sister, who was not done.

That’s when Amanda came down with the bite marks.

But the bite marks looked suspicious. For one thing, the mark clearly showed uneven front teeth. Not horribly uneven, but one front tooth slightly in front of the other. Autumn, however, is wearing braces and has been wearing them for well over a year. Thus, her two front teeth line up perfectly.

As I look at Amanda, I notice her two front teeth. One just a slight bit in front of the other.

The girl bit herself and blamed it on her sister. Not once, but twice! And lied to me!

So now I’m furious that she lied to me, and that she would stoop that low. But I’m also proud of myself and my CSI skills in detecting the out and out fraudulent bite mark.

Days like these I wish there was a fast-forward button on my parenting days and I could just speed right by the upcoming tumultous teen years.

Pray for my sanity. Thanks for playing.

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Losing my mind

This morning I woke up with hubby and wandered into the kitchen to make coffee. Hubby got up at 7 a.m. It is now 8:30 a.m. and I am just now drinking my first cup of coffee.

Why?

Brain farts. Old age. Sleepiness. Take your pick.

Basically, the first time I forgot to add the actual coffee to the maker, so it brewed warm water. I tried again, this time adding the coffee to the maker. However, I forgot to turn it on.

I guess my mind is taking seriously my pledge to cut down on my caffeine.

My weekend whirlwind summer continues. Last weekend the hubby and I and some assorted family members (aunt, uncle, cousin , cousin’s wife, cousin, and children of cousins’), went tubing for six plus hours down the Manistee River. At one point we were all hooked up to one another. That’d be 15 people plus some empty tubes and some cooler tubes. It was fun.

I am, however, sporting a few new bruises on my forearms. You really need to watch out for those sweepers. (Sweepers defined: long branches that extend over the river at a height perfect to take your head off as the current forces you under them.) The three youngest children in our party were in a blow-up raft.

The last time (before last weekend) that I’d been down a river was in the late 90s and we went canoeing with my brothers and sisters and mom and everyone’ s kids.

Why do my children hate each other?

This has nothing to do with anything else, but I am just amazed at the wrath one of my children can feel against another. The girls were upstairs cleaning their room yesterday when a fight of major proportions broke out. Amanda and Maxine were rolling around, kicking and and biting and hitting each other. Steve broke them up. They were both bleeding. Not badly, but bleeding.

You would think that Amanda, who is a little sister herself, would have a bit more compassion for Maxine. But no. The two just tick each other off.

I seriously considered tying the two of them together, like in a three-legged race, and make them spend the day together, co-operating. I still haven’t ruled it out. Geesh.

No matter how much we lecture about family, and no hitting and biting, they still do this. It’s never drawn blood before though. It’s so odd for me. I have brothers and sisters, but they’re all a lot older than me (can never miss that dig), and I never had the sibling rivalry to deal with. I didn’t have to share a room or fight about who was sitting where in a vehicle. (Really, it is amazing the things they find to fight about.) The other day Amanda was upset because Maxine had a halter for toy horses that Amanda had made out of ponytail holders. We have umpteen million pony tail holders, but do you think Amanda offered to help Maxine make one? Nope. Just fighting.

Well, I’m off to send my angelic children to Vacation Bible School for a couple hours. Later.

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Harry Potter

I finished the latest book in the Harry Potters series yesterday. It took me a bit longer because of our plans last weekend, and then I have to share the book with my daughter.

Sharing a book is not a fun thing.

First of all, I wasn’t going to share. I forked over the money ($25.44 from my local bookstore), and it was MINE, all MINE. But I finally decided she could read it too, but I had priority. So when she went to bed Monday night, she couldn’t take it with her because I was reading it.

Very odd, that.  I don’t like sharing a book I want to read, but it was a big deal to her too, so I let her. And luckily she didn’t do the thing that I absolutely hate, which is take the cover off the book and just leave it lying around.

Now I am anxious to read the next one. I wish it was done NOW. This is why I don’t like sequels, and I rarely get caught up in them. After finishing the 6th book yesterday, I spent some time with the 5th book. There were some characters that I’d forgotten about and I wanted to be reminded of them.

Well, the editor’s still on vacation so I better get to work. Toodles.

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Sand and Haze

What a busy weekend! I am swamped and as predicted, I have a pile of laundry. So what else is new?

Friday night, hubby and I were childless and we went to Woodtic at Merritt Speedway. Lots of fun. We turned in at 2 a.m., and were up at 7 a.m. to go pick up the girls from camp. Autumn’s camp ended with a demonstration of their horse skills. Autumn had tested as a "Mountie," which meant she had some skills. That is totally because she often rides horses at a friend’s house. The friend had also went to the camp, and I told the mom it was all due to her.The girls did great. (For all pictures in this blog, you can click them and see a larger version.)

Img_6592_1And surprise, surprise, two of my three children did not spend the entire $20 left in their accounts. Autumn and Amanda both had a quarter left. Maxine spent hers in its entirety. Here’s Autumn and the horse she rode for the week at Camp, Cinder.

After we picked up the girls, we headed for the ClayBanks, which isn’t far from Silver Lake Sand Dunes. On Saturday afternoon, Steve and I headed over there with my FIL, a cousin and his wife and oldest son, an aunt and uncle, and Gramps.

This is a state park where they let you take your ORV in to drive around in the ever-chaning sand dunes. Your ORV has to have a flag to help people see you. I spent a lot of time at the bottom of the first hill by the entrance just watching people try to make it up this huge hill. On the other side it dropped off a LOT. As in, if you didn’t break at the top, you’d launch off it.

The array of vehicles trying to make it up this hill was almost as entertaining as watching people attempt it (and most make it). Shortly after we got there, Steve and I both saw a four-seater dune buggy power up the last 20 feet or so on its back tires only. Steve noted I would have been screaming if that’d been me in there. So right.

Img_6606 Then before I could even get out the video camera, Steve was off on his dirt bike and up the hill and gone. The picture is of him as he took off. I sat in the back of the truck and waited for him to return. The sand was so strange and I wasn’t confident that I’d be able to drive the truck I was in anywhere. We had borrowed an extended cab 4×4 Ford for the weekend. And that’s what I was supposed to be driving around. There was no way I could make it up that hill, and I didn’t know where else to go.

It wasn’t long before the FIL joined me, with the truck full of everyone else I mentioned (minus the cousin and the uncle who were on 4-wheelers). The FIL attempted to drive the truck up the huge hill, and as I watched I was amazed at how much he shook and jerked it around. Definitely a bouncy ride. He didn’t make it. The truck was done right about the place where I watched the dune buggy go up on its two back tires. Then he had to get it down the hill and back by me, which wasn’t easy either. It took several attempts and lots of power.

Finally, Steve had me follow him through the dunes so we could go sit on the shore of Lake Michigan for a while. But I couldn’t get over the hill. Steve had taken me to a place he felt I should be able to drive up, but I couldn’t do it. I can’t drive his dirt bike, so I really needed to get the truck up it. And I’d try, but I’d only get 3/4 of the way, and I’d be stuck. At the end I was swearing at him and just ready to get the heck out of there. I’d never tried to drive a truck up something like that before. I was usually in the passenger seat when Steve did it.

Finally, Scott (the cousin) showed up on his four-wheeler, and traded me. I put on the helmet and prepared to drive up the hill. And then realized, on a 4-wheeler I had no protection if I went over. And then I was sideways on a steep hill, and worried about how to get up or down. I got down, took a deep breath, and then powered over it. Glad to have finally done it.

We stayed by the lake a while, but we had to go home and the only way out was through the dunes. I’d have to drive the truck. Steve gave me a few words of encouragement, and I started out. The last hill before you exit was a lot steeper than Steve or I expected. But I didn’t hesitate, or panic. I just drove and had faith that the truck (and I) could do it. Then on the other end, there was a short steep descent to the exit. I made it. And Steve was proud. :) He was bragging about me to the kids. And it was FUN.

We plan on going back with the Jeep. And I’d really like to have a 4-wheeler or a dune buggy to tool around there in. Steve was really happy with his dirt bike’s performance. It went everyhere he wanted it to, and we didn’t even have the paddle wheels most of the bikes we saw had on. I’d never before done anything like that, and it was great.

We also camped near Lake Michigan. It was 93 steps from our campground to the beach. And what a difference. The haze hung over the lake, really limiting the view. And on Sunday morning, the haze was all the way up on the beach. There was a big temperature drop by the water. This must be the definition of humidity. The haze was just so thick. I took pictures from an observation deck to show you. You can barely see past the beach to realize that Lake Michigan is out there.

Img_6622Also the sand on the beach there was like no other sand I remember. It was different than the sand dunes too, which was also unique sand. At the beach, the sand actually squeaked when you walked through it. Or if you  rubbed your hand back and forth on the sand’s surface, it would start to make a noise. After playing in the sand, I noticed the black grains of sand were stuck to my fingers, collecting in the wrinkles around my knuckles. I was thinking it might have been a metal fragment. Very neat experience too. And the haze made it look all so surreal.

It was over all an awesome weekend. My house is no longer so quiet, but it’s good to have the kids back. Even if they did bring home tons of laundry. ;)

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